This will hopefully be my final chapter in the Kenny drama. For those of you just now tuning in, I met Kenny on Plenty of Fish back in January. We briefly dated in March before my roommate encountered Kenny with his girlfriend, Britney. We contacted Britney to let her know what he did and she and I actually became good friends. They stayed together because Kenny convinced her he just needed a friend and she wasn't giving him enough attention. About 3 or 4 weeks ago, they broke up for good and I believe that concludes our recap as of my last posting on the topic.
This brings us to a few weeks ago. After they broke up, for some reason they were still communicating fairly often. Kenny admitted to having seen other girls while he was with Britney. I remained convinced that he did more than that but Britney was willing to believe him. That is, until I received an email from Lauren. Lauren was clearing out her phone numbers and when she got to Kenny's name she googled his POF username. My blog popped up. After reading all about Kenny and Britney and me, she decided to contact me. She had met him for coffee back in early March and they saw each other a few times throughout the month. There was a weekend in mid March when Kenny told Britney they couldn't go on a planned trip because he had too much work to do. Then he took me out that Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. Apparently, after our date on Saturday night, he went to Lauren's apartment at around 2:30am and.....well, I try to keep this blog fairly PG so we'll just say their relationship could no longer be considered "friendly". After that they talked a bit here and there but she decided to make things work with her recent ex bf and Kenny told her she wasn't allowed to speak to him about other guys and never spoke to her again.
Upon receiving this email, I contacted Britney to let her know. At this point, I could see she was still in love with him and she was taking a lot of blame for the relationship failing on herself. I wasn't ok with that. As much as it hurt her, I knew she was better off knowing the truth about him. Well, she went a little bonkers. After talking to Lauren herself, she called Kenny and asked him about it all. Several things happened: First, he admitted to meeting different girls for coffee nearly every single day. Knowing that, I am not at all surprised he got fired from his job. Second, he said he actively dated 5 girls and had "progressed relations" with 2. The third thing that happened during this conversation, is he threatened her. He told her if she told anyone about any of this he was going to break all her house windows, call 911 and claim she stole things from him, and post nude photos of her. The third threat is particularly disturbing because Britney never gave him nudes or let him take any. This means he either is bluffing, or took them when she was asleep.
Britney was freaking out, rightfully so. I encouraged her to get her locks changed and his name removed from her lease, which she did immediately. After she got more details from Lauren, she also had to set up a Doc appointment since apparently Kenny cared so little about her, that he didn't even have the decency to be safe while cheating. She's noticed some of her things missing but chooses to not get upset about it. She knows it's time for her to move on and I agree.
Aside from Lauren, I've also encountered another girl who met Kenny a couple of times in February for coffee. I've reached out to a few others and learned some interesting tidbits about him. I've noticed on his blogs that he's posting a lot of photos with Brit and shirtless pics of himself trying to project a better image of himself online. With everything I've learned about him I can't decide if he's a sociopath, horribly emotionally damaged, or just really self involved. It somewhat seems that he just tries to see how much he can get away with before a person snaps, as though he's doing a study. It's very, very strange and disturbing. I believe he needs serious mental help and without it, shouldn't be allowed to work, date, and certainly shouldn't be responsible for a child, especially not a girl. The only bright side, is that no one will ever love him. No one will ever be able to because they'll never truly know him. He's clearly incredibly intelligent, along with being fun, amusing, and interesting. But instead of just being an open, honest, responsible adult, he chooses to instead play these games with no regard for anyone else's feelings, or physical health. Really disgusting.
I hope to never have to post about this jackass again. And once more, he's got profiles on OKCupid, Plenty of Fish, and Match.com. Known usernames are Kennykool, Renovatio15, and KJBroccoli. He lives in Naples, Florida and presents himself as a dedicated father and extremely busy businessman, which he is not. He also lets you believe he's successful, which he is not. If you or someone you know dated him, are talking to him, think you might be but aren't sure, please feel free to reach out to me like Lauren did. We'd love to prevent him from fooling anyone else. It's people like him that ruin online dating for everyone else.
This brings us to a few weeks ago. After they broke up, for some reason they were still communicating fairly often. Kenny admitted to having seen other girls while he was with Britney. I remained convinced that he did more than that but Britney was willing to believe him. That is, until I received an email from Lauren. Lauren was clearing out her phone numbers and when she got to Kenny's name she googled his POF username. My blog popped up. After reading all about Kenny and Britney and me, she decided to contact me. She had met him for coffee back in early March and they saw each other a few times throughout the month. There was a weekend in mid March when Kenny told Britney they couldn't go on a planned trip because he had too much work to do. Then he took me out that Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. Apparently, after our date on Saturday night, he went to Lauren's apartment at around 2:30am and.....well, I try to keep this blog fairly PG so we'll just say their relationship could no longer be considered "friendly". After that they talked a bit here and there but she decided to make things work with her recent ex bf and Kenny told her she wasn't allowed to speak to him about other guys and never spoke to her again.
Upon receiving this email, I contacted Britney to let her know. At this point, I could see she was still in love with him and she was taking a lot of blame for the relationship failing on herself. I wasn't ok with that. As much as it hurt her, I knew she was better off knowing the truth about him. Well, she went a little bonkers. After talking to Lauren herself, she called Kenny and asked him about it all. Several things happened: First, he admitted to meeting different girls for coffee nearly every single day. Knowing that, I am not at all surprised he got fired from his job. Second, he said he actively dated 5 girls and had "progressed relations" with 2. The third thing that happened during this conversation, is he threatened her. He told her if she told anyone about any of this he was going to break all her house windows, call 911 and claim she stole things from him, and post nude photos of her. The third threat is particularly disturbing because Britney never gave him nudes or let him take any. This means he either is bluffing, or took them when she was asleep.
Britney was freaking out, rightfully so. I encouraged her to get her locks changed and his name removed from her lease, which she did immediately. After she got more details from Lauren, she also had to set up a Doc appointment since apparently Kenny cared so little about her, that he didn't even have the decency to be safe while cheating. She's noticed some of her things missing but chooses to not get upset about it. She knows it's time for her to move on and I agree.
Aside from Lauren, I've also encountered another girl who met Kenny a couple of times in February for coffee. I've reached out to a few others and learned some interesting tidbits about him. I've noticed on his blogs that he's posting a lot of photos with Brit and shirtless pics of himself trying to project a better image of himself online. With everything I've learned about him I can't decide if he's a sociopath, horribly emotionally damaged, or just really self involved. It somewhat seems that he just tries to see how much he can get away with before a person snaps, as though he's doing a study. It's very, very strange and disturbing. I believe he needs serious mental help and without it, shouldn't be allowed to work, date, and certainly shouldn't be responsible for a child, especially not a girl. The only bright side, is that no one will ever love him. No one will ever be able to because they'll never truly know him. He's clearly incredibly intelligent, along with being fun, amusing, and interesting. But instead of just being an open, honest, responsible adult, he chooses to instead play these games with no regard for anyone else's feelings, or physical health. Really disgusting.
I hope to never have to post about this jackass again. And once more, he's got profiles on OKCupid, Plenty of Fish, and Match.com. Known usernames are Kennykool, Renovatio15, and KJBroccoli. He lives in Naples, Florida and presents himself as a dedicated father and extremely busy businessman, which he is not. He also lets you believe he's successful, which he is not. If you or someone you know dated him, are talking to him, think you might be but aren't sure, please feel free to reach out to me like Lauren did. We'd love to prevent him from fooling anyone else. It's people like him that ruin online dating for everyone else.